10 rules for the day

Rule #1- Never look a crazy person in the eye. Keep it moving!

Rule #2-Do not display any road rage. Stay in your own damn lane.

Rule #3-Protect your women and  daughters as if your life depended on it. Real talk

Rule #4-The Brain is awesome.  Try thinking about what you are going to say before it actually comes out of your mouth

Rule #5-Be grateful for all that you have.  You are not invincible from life situations.  What goes up can come down and the same is true for the opposite correlation.  Let us call it gravitation.


Rule #6- Communicate with your children.  It will make it more complicated for the snakes to recruit them on the street.  These are factual truths.


Rule #7- Have a daily plan and stick to it.  Don’t allow others to pull you around like a puppet all day.  Govern yourself while being respectful.  Their are modern day bullies in school and the work place.

Rule #8- Be Patient.  Good things come to those who wait.  Don’t compare yourself to others.  We are not in a race even though it feels like we are.

Rule #9- Don’t miss out on your blessings by being grumpy, mean, and in everybody’s business. Govern yourself.


Rule #10- Take care of your body. In and out you need nutrients, water, and plenty of rest. Refuse to Lose




Allegiance to your Life

All of our lives must contain substance.  We all must have something concrete that defines us.  It could be that you are a stay at home mom and you devote most of your time to your children, but the hours that they are away at school, doing homework, or leisure  activities will allow you to focus on your goals or whatever it is that fullfills your life.  The key is to not worry what others think of you.  That will hinder you and cause you to stay stuck.  Or it could be that you are a doctor or surgeon and you devote most of your time to your patients, but the hours that you spend on your days off should not just be to sleep in.  It is imperative that you do not lose who your in the process of helping others.  You are most effective when you begin to appreciate yourself and who you are and what you will become.  You see, your career does not define you. Your spirit, well-being, confidence, and love for self defines who you really are.  You must continue to strive for newness, and continue to be true to your own heart. sand heart at the beach, Nikon D5100.jpg

Matthew 6:21 – For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.  “There are things which are more valuable than food, clothing and shelter. There are commodities far more precious than automobiles, houses and electronic devices of communication. Treasures in heaven: Things we should value and want to have, because they come from God, bring us close to God, make us better people and prepare us for a happy eternity after death!”-Warren E. Berkley
When Your Life is on course with its purpose, you are your most powerful.”-Oprah Winfrey.  We idolize material things such as the American flag by pledging allegiance.  We define ourselves by our degrees and skill set.  There is just so much more to you.  Pledge allegiance to your life.  You are beautiful .  Let your beauty show.